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Today I feel, unnaturally calm. And lonely.

Darling, are we hitting the highway soon?


We left for Alaminos last Friday and came back this Tuesday. I brought home some Alaminos longganisa, plenty of photos and these thoughts.

10. When everyone is speaking in Pangalatok around you, and you can’t understand a single word, you can’t help but feel a bit out of place. And out of sorts. The boyfriend cheered me up and told me not to feel bad. Anyway if things work out, I might end up speaking (or, at least, understanding) the language. LOL.

If things work out, I'll understand everything they talk about. Hee.

If things work out, I'll understand everything they talk about. Hee.

9. Caloy looked so darn cute when he was a kid. I’ll post pictures as soon as I get my hands on them, har har! 🙂

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Kung ikaw yan at ang crushness mo, mamahalin mo rin ang ulan. LOL. 😛

So, hello rainy season. 🙂

*clip from the Korean film, The Classic. I looove this movie.

I’ve been looking for this sort-of manifesto for years. One of my college professors sent it through e-mail, and I accidentally deleted it. I found it again at this site. Well, I edited it a bit.

  • Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Be who you are, know what you want.
  • Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. Will he do the same?
  • If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”
  • A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
  • Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
  • The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Submit only when you get married.
  • Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant why would he treat you any differently?

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Me: Tunay na lalake ka.

The boyfriend: Hahaha. Digs.

Ikaw, tunay na lalake ka? Click mo.

Today, I feel:

  • Disappointed. How come Ron Howard manages to screw up Dan Brown’s novels’ movie adaptations? He f*cked up the Da Vinci Code and now he ruined Angels and Demons (which, I enjoyed reading). He left out plenty of good parts. I didn’t even feel the clash between religion and science, which was the whole point of the story. Grrr.

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First :)

Posted on: May 14, 2009

Truth be told, our anniversary was anything but mushy. We got up, went to work, had breakfast together, finished our tasks and quota, and left the workplace. Afterwards, we had this fabulous dinner at one of the coziest restos I know, Fat Michael’s Place in Makati. There, that was it. Short, simple, sweet.

Months ago, I remember planning our anniversary with the boyfriend. There were talks of Sagada, beaches, Baguio, and other out-of-town destinations we’d like to go to celebrate. But, after the boyfriend lost 3K and his ATM when his wallet was stolen last month, I promised him we could reschedule our anniversary trip plans.

We opted to celebrate it here.

We opted to celebrate it here.

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